Seven Boats Successful People Burn
“So I guess you’re just wanting me to start a bonfire right here in your office?“ He came in because he felt he was “losing his edge.“ About a year ago, we had ceased his bridge burning, and taken a torch to his boats. Amazing things were happening in his business, and in his marriage. […]
Burning Bridges or Burning Boats
The couple walked into my office, and the husband flopped back in the chair as if he had just been on 100 mile cattle drive. He groaned audibly followed by: “Hell I don’t know if we should burn the bridges or burn the boats! Hopefully you can help us decide and give us a match!“ […]
Seven Things Healthy Partners Do When They Face Wounds or Challenges
“We are having some challenges, and we both feel wounded. We are both deeply committed to getting back on track. But we both agree we need a little boost to help us get there.“ I cannot tell you how much I love receiving those kinds of texts and voice messages. Because clearly they are healing […]
Seven Things You Simply MUST Do When You’ve Been Wounded by Someone You Love
When I walked into my closet and saw that every thing from his side was gone, my heart sank to a place that felt like quicksand. Like it would never rise again. For a second, everything went black. There were thousands of drums booming inside my ears, my palms went clammy, and I knew I […]