“I know that this is the wound that says my ‘attach-er’ is really broken. I guess it’s the granddaddy of all of them!” my client said zestfully with a bit of trepidation … I laughed as I assured...
“I hate having to look at this attachment wound!” my client stated with angst. “It is my dad to a T and it’s what hurts my wife the most!” I nodded with empathy. But I also reminded him to give...
“Since we realized I’m all of the above (unhealthy attachments), I guess I need to work on the healing process for all 3?” my client asked with apparent willingness mixed with...
“I know I can’t go back and redo my childhood, but can I still get to a healthy attachment style?” my client pleaded “You certainly can! I am inserting this piece this week before I talk about the...
“I finally get it, but I did not choose these attachment wounds, or my attachment style. But why do I feel so much shame about them?” my client asked with almost the tone of a pleading little boy. “I...
“How do you know if someone isn’t getting their needs met or if they’re just needy?” my client asked. “Oh, my goodness you certainly know how to get me on a soapbox!” I responded immediately. “One...
“I don’t think I have any attachment wounds I just don’t attach!” my client mused. I realized he was thinking as many do that wounds are things you can see. Rarely are attachment wounds anything...
“The first time you told me I had a ‘connection disorder’ I thought you meant my mouth and my brain weren’t connected!” my client said to me as he walked in my office. “And maybe that’s true too!” he...
“We have a question we’d love for you to answer …” The couple I’d worked with and shared their story with you asked. “Why are couples so resistant to this...
