Five Things Men Want & Need
“He’s the most miserable and unhappy man I’ve ever known. I truly am doing everything I know to do to make him happy. But no matter what, he is snappy and very unpleasant. What am I doing wrong? Where am I missing it? How do I reach him?” Her brokenness and desperation were obvious, even, […]
FIVE THINGS EVERY WOMAN NEEDS (GUYS: LET ME HELP YOU WITH VALENTINE’S DAY!)
“I have no idea what she wants! I’ve tried everything!” I hear such things often from clients (both husbands and wives) and they’re not usually fond of my response. “Everything? Really? Well then … tell me everything you’ve tried…” Usually I get the eye roll and get some half-baked answer like: “Well, you know … […]
80% Positivity + 20% (or Less) Negativity = Rich, Fulfilling Relationships
“If you think I need to follow that 80% positive to 20% negative thing you wrote about last week, I’m going to need a lot of duct tape for my mouth!” I knew he was not exaggerating, because I’d been seeing them, for about 3 or 4 months. Little did I know one comment in […]
TRAIN YOUR BRAIN FOR “PEAK PRESENCE” AND “PEAK PERFORMANCE”
“This is the way my life is…it’s just my cross to bear.” “I was just born with this set of genes and we’re all fat …so, there’s no use in me trying to do anything about it.” “What does mind over matter mean anyway? Our brain cells come with us at birth … and that’s […]
FIVE POWER HABITS OF THOSE WHO DESIGN MULTIPLE EXTRAORDINARY YEARS, CREATING AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE
“So, I did most of that stuff about designing an extraordinary year, but mine’s not extraordinary yet…” “I got all the stuff you listed done, so how do I make sure I stay on track?” “If we lived on the same continent and I could work with you, what character changes would you encourage me […]
Five Bonuses Tips to Make 2022 An EXTRAORDINARY Year
“Things just got so busy through the holidays I just didn’t have time to design my extraordinary year. But I guess there’s always next year.“ I looked at him with what he called disgust, but actually it was great determination! My response: “I guess there’s always next week.“ He said he knew at that moment […]
7 Steps to Design An Extraordinary Year
“Newsflash: drifting is dangerous!” Those were the words I began my broadcast with to an audience who registered for my “Designing An Extraordinary Year“ course. I love what Michael Hyatt says about drifting. He states that “drifting is unlikely to take you to a destination that you would have chosen.“ Why on earth would we, […]
Designing An Extraordinary Year Begins with RESPECT
“I don’t want to waste the holiday. I want to make it count to set me up for a better year. Not just a bunch of resolutions, but a real life change! Can you help me?“ The young executive had received my name and number from one of his colleagues who had been sharing how […]
Seven Priceless Gifts for Those You Love (For Under $20)
“Expect not and you shall not be disappointed!” It’s what my Mother would say when my sister and I would realize as kids that our dad got her nothing for Christmas, or her birthday, or anything else. Even when though I was terrified of him as a child, I would often beg him to get […]
7 Reasons to Give Up Living Life in the Rearview Mirror
“No matter what I do, I can’t seem to stop reflecting and trying to analyze what really happened to my marriage. It’s like my whole life went down the tubes with my divorce. I’m depressed, I’ve gained 50 pounds, I just don’t look good or feel good, and I am lost.” My client was obviously […]