Discover the State that Will Lead You to Living the Abundant Life (Without Misery or Suffering!)
“Just doing the prep work has diminished misery and suffering in my life. But it still shows up way too often…you promised me we could expect it to go, and I’m ready! And my wife is MORE than ready!” I smiled and nodded as I proclaimed, “I am sure she is more than ready! You […]
How Champions Lay Down Suffering and/or Misery & Step Into the Abundant Life
“Suffering and misery. Those are the only two switches that I have in my life. I just can’t do it anymore!” So many people come to my office with the words “suffering” and “misery” as their life descriptors. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to hear. But it is so very real for those who experience it. “I […]
Design An Extraordinary New Year Like A Champion
“My coworker told me that I was going to be adrift and lost at sea for another year if I don’t do your program.” I had to laugh and say, “I don’t know who your coworker is, but I promise that I did not pay her to do any marketing for me!” She looked almost […]
The Love of a Champion
“It’s killing me reading week after week about how couples come back together. Why can’t it happen for me? Or for us?” Although seeing someone on the zoom screen is not the same as sitting across from someone in my office, it took no great analysis skills to see I was speaking to a man […]
The “Whatever It Takes” Stance of A Champion & Why It Matters
“The words ‘whatever it takes’ have given me chest pains and burning in my gut since I read your blog about the pro athlete who was willing to do ‘whatever it takes’ to restore his marriage.” With curiosity, I asked her what made that phrase so disturbing? “I’m not really sure. It’s like I have […]
The Worldview of A Champion
“There’s not a snowball’s chance in hell that you’ll advance here in this company. Your worldview is not your friend, and it makes you your own worst enemy.” My new client’s dismay was evident as he shared his annual review results with me. “I was too embarrassed to tell him that I didn’t even know […]
Champions May Fall … But Real Champions Rise Again
“Here I am … I’m supposed to be this great role model, and now I’ve messed it all up and turned my world upside down.” Head down, he paused to gather his emotions and then said, “I guess I won’t be speaking to any more young people, and I’m sure the media will have a […]
How Champions Stay the Course When the Going Gets Tough
“I guess you could call me an imposter or a hypocrite. Here I am, someone who strategizes with large corporations about staying the course through ups and down in the marketplace. And me? I’m having trouble staying the course with my marriage.” Because she was a Champion who’d gone through my Coach Training & Certification […]
How Champion Optimize Dopamine for an Optimal Life
“I have no idea what happened to me. But something is terribly wrong. I’ve wondered if I had cancer or some horrible disease that’s turned me into what I am. But after six months of testing, with every specialist known to man, my cardiologist said, ‘I was fine’ and sent me to you.” His accomplishments […]
Why Champions Embrace & Balance the Power of Dopamine
“I’ve lost my mojo. I’ve no energy. And I seem to be lost in the next glass of wine. I just can’t change this ‘hell’ I’m in.” She was tearful, obviously depressed, and what I saw in her body language, her speech, her tone of voice, and her facial expression was … hopelessness. “I ran […]