Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your Bleep, Part III
“Last week was such a high, delivering back all of that carried anger…but I didn’t expect to wake up the next morning feeling empty!?” my client said/ask at check-in. I replied. “I understand totally. It’s surprises almost everyone.” I continued: “But it’s just a real indicator of how much space it takes up in our […]
Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your BLEEP, Part II
“I’ve had so much relief from draining my bitterness tank and my resentment tank … that I am MORE THAN READY to drain the carried anger tank. I feel different than I’ve felt my whole life, and I deeply want to give my wife and kids the foundation for an abundant life. Instead of a […]
Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your Bleep (Part I)
“Honest to God.” His pause was filled with palpable jovial-mocking angst as he blurted, “I never knew every cell in my body was oozing carried anger!” His wife laughed and challenged him: “Oozing?! You DO mean exploding with carried anger, right?!” We all laughed because we were on the other side of the valley of […]
Resolving Resentment that Fuels Your BLEEP
“I knew I resented my ex-wife and all she did to me and our family. But I had no idea I was punishing my current wife, and my children (and my brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, neighbors, church friends for that matter!) with it! I really had no idea!” I like to define resentment as a […]
Resolving Bitterness that Fuels Your BLEEP
“I had no idea that I had all of this ‘stuff’ mentally and spiritually onboard… fueling my BLEEP! But all I can say is … life is better for me, our marriage, and our kids…now that I have unloaded the fuel tank of bitterness. And. I can assure you that it was overflowing!” Last week, […]
Is Your BLEEP Rooted in Bitterness, Resentment, or Carried Anger?
“Isn’t there a pill for BLEEP? We are working on all of this, and at least he understands that this is killing me through stress hormones. But a BLEEP pill would save my life!” my client cried out desperately. The past couple of weeks, I’ve been writing about BLEEP. What is BLEEP? Well, since most […]
Use Your BLEEP As A Catalyst for Something Life Giving
“Well, we’re pretty sure that what you wrote about ‘BLEEP’ last week was about us. And we’re trying all the stuff you said, but he still wants to explain and excuse himself after he unloads his ‘BLEEP’ on me!” I had to laugh as I informed them: “Well, about 90% of the couples that I […]
Your BLEEP Is Drowning Me in Stress Hormones
“My wife says this is not rocket science, but I am an electrical engineer, and it’s rocket science to me!” my client proclaimed. Curiously, I waited. “Surely you know what I’m talking about. This thing where you say, ‘If anger walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, … it’s BLEEP (or whatever you […]
A New Look At Patience As A Gift to Those We Love
“I heard a preacher say one time that’s an invitation for trials and tribulations. So, I certainly don’t want to pray for any patience. But my husband said I’m in desperate need of some!” I had to laugh when my client came in with that one on their lips…and in her heart. Patience. It’s something […]
How Champions Handle the Aftermath of An Argument to Ensure a Rich, Fulfilling Relationship
“I can’t say anything right or do anything right so why should I even work on this marriage?” my client began as he plopped into the chair. It’s amazing how many times I hear this every week. Even as little as 25 years ago, there were almost always major attempts for reconciliation between arguments or disagreements, […]