Developing Emotional Sobriety Requires Recognizing & Untangling Skewed Thinking
“Wait! Did you say my thoughts were ‘screwed’?” my client demanded. With a smile, I clarified … “I did not. I said they were ‘skewed’.” He looked confused as he paused to ponder. “Is there a difference?” I smiled again as I casually responded, “Not much, I guess!” We both laughed. I had been speaking […]
EMOTIONAL SOBRIETY … And Why You Need It Whether You Are An Addict or NOT!
The host of the broadcast asked a great question with curiosity His reaction wasn’t different than most people’s when they hear about emotional sobriety: “Wait a minute! What is this about emotional sobriety? And what is it?” Before I answered the question about what it was, I clarified that many people mistakenly believe that this […]
Your Presence Leaves A Mark: Is it Positive or Negative?
“I couldn’t believe it when my wife said to me: ‘YES! Who you are makes a difference … it ruins many days of my life! But I’m not sure that’s a difference you should be proud of!’ I was just stunned!” my client blurted out in desperation. “First of all, she isn’t one to say […]
Aint’ Nothin’ Like the Real Thing: Authenticity
“I just had my first performance review in my new position, and I was stunned to receive the feedback that I was ‘too polished’.” My client was clearly mystified. “When you make six figures a year in sales, how can you possibly be ‘to polished’?” I nodded to validate his concern. Then I asked, “Is […]
The Number One Goal in Life
My client rushed into my office with urgency: “I read this quote this week, and it’s like everything you’ve been saying to me is summarized here: ‘The number one goal of life is developing mastery in your unique ability and thus living out your unique calling and your purpose at the highest possible level’.” (Dan […]