How Finding Your Purpose Helps Heal Trauma
“Look … I know I’ve got trauma. It’s just not something that I really ever thought I could ever work through. But when my wife came home talking about finding her purpose, and told me you were going to talk to her this week about how finding your purpose helps heal trauma … I just […]
Why Purposeful Living Seems Unreachable When We Have Unresolved Trauma or Unhealed Wounds
“Is it true that everyone has a purpose? I mean I’m a good person. I try to do the right things. Could my purpose be to just do that? Or am I missing something?” This client had been working with me for a while. She’d worked through the trauma of growing up in a “house […]
1% + 20% + 100% = 10,000% Results in Your Marriage, Finances/Business, & Life
“I was on your pop-up mini workshop, a couple of weeks ago, and my brain is still stuck on that percentage statement that you made. I mean I got the general concept, and it stirred something in me. But somehow, I can’t seem to figure out how to apply it to my life … if […]
Trauma & Wounds We Don’t Heal … We Become, Repeat or Attract Like Human Magnets
“I agreed to sit and watch your workshop online with her, because I could tell you have really helped her. But I didn’t sign up for you to nail me to the wall!” the husband of my client proclaimed. I had to chuckle, because I wasn’t sure if he thought that he was in trouble, […]
The Courage to Love Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back
The Courage to Love Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back “Walking down the aisle to the man of my dreams was almost more than I could fully embrace. I loved him with every ounce of my being and had never loved that way before. And I’m convinced that I will never love that way again!” […]
The Courage to Love When Addiction or Mental Illness Is Involved
“I love him. I really do. I try to show him in every way possible. But it goes unnoticed or rejected … I’m weary of the drinking, I’m beaten up by the unpredictability of his bipolar spectrum swings, and he thinks it’s all me. I’m afraid the courage to love is running out. Can you […]
The Courage to Love in the Face of Conflict
“I think she would agree that I brought my ‘A Game’ this week in my courage to love. But it goes straight to hell in a handbasket when we get into disagreements.” His wife immediately responded: “I know that’s right!” I shared about this wonderful man last week in my blog, entitled “Tthe Courage to […]
The Courage to Really Love!
“I know you say that frustration and challenges are an invitation to intimacy. But I don’t get that. And it doesn’t work in our relationship. So what am I supposed to do next?” my client asked in total exasperation. “It takes a lot of courage to come and ask what you’re supposed to do,” […]
According to Your Faith
“I had no idea that my faith, about expecting the worst, was actually creating the worst,” my client said with exasperation! I waited. Moanfully she said, “That moment in your webinar was a game changer for me. I always believed that if I expected the worst, that anything better than that would be great. Little […]
Do You Need A Breakthrough?
“I scheduled this premium appointment because I simply must have a breakthrough in my life. Like my life is deteriorating before my eyes! I hope you can understand that this is not just something I desire, but something I simply must have!” my returning client from years ago proclaimed. She had come through my outpatient […]