“I can’t say anything right or do anything right so why should I even work on this marriage?” my client began as he plopped into the chair. It’s amazing how many times I hear this every week...
“Just about the time I think I’ve settled into my current job…and my life these crazy thoughts and dreams about what I’d love to do pop up again. I don’t understand why I can’t just settle in...
“Yeah … I’m just livin’ the dream!” This, all too often, is a repeated punch-clock phrase allocated to the emotional-negative-pile, which is almost … NO! it IS our national ‘9 to...
“It’s been a rough road for us, so we decided to call it quits after over 20 years of marriage. But since we’ve been apart, we both have come to realize how much better our lives are together. Now...
“All I ever wanted my entire life was unconditional love. I reached out to a mentor from church, in tears about his most recent departure, and my mentor said: “Unconditional, love does not exist! And...
“You struck a nerve when you spoke about remorse in our session last week. It went through me like a shockwave!” Last week I wrote about the couple who came to build their ego strength together, and...
How A Champion Builds Ego Strength “There is absolutely no way that I’m going to let him come and have you help him build his ego strength when he’s beaten mine to a pulp! So we’re doing it together!”...
“I am so confused! My wife tells me, that I’ve got an ego bigger than Dallas, like. Then today she told me my ego strength is below ground zero and the two needed to flip-flop! WTH?!” I had to laugh...
“My life is good. My marriage is good. Our kids are good. Our finances are good.” Then she looked at me sheepishly as she continued. “Is it just arrogant to show up here and say everything’s good? But...