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Providing weekly blogs to inspire you on your journey

Why I Am So Passionate about Those with Unresolved Trauma

“Be honest Do you ever feel like your dedication and mission to love people with unresolved trauma is akin to loving the unlovable?“ I was stunned by the question, and I thought for sure he would...

THINGS YOU WILL WISH YOU HAD DONE SOONER THAN LATER ON YOUR JOURNEY HEALING FROM TRAUMA

The host reacted to what he called “the urgent desperation” in my voice as I shared the words: “Just get started!” He said, “The urgent desperation in your voice sounds almost like you are...

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU NEED EXTRA HELP IN TRAUMA RECOVERY

“I am working faithfully in the trauma recovery workbook that you recommended to my wife for me. But for the life of me I cannot stop going back to the moment of those tires screeching.” I leaned...

SUPPORTING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THROUGH TRAUMA RECOVERY

“Oh my God! Now I have a whole new problem!” “After all the hard work you helped me do to get him into his trauma recovery, I bet you thought you wouldn’t be hearing from me.” “I am so grateful that...

WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOUR PARTNER/SPOUSE HAS UNRESOLVED TRAUMA & HOW YOU CAN HELP

“I just feel like life, hope and energy have been sucked right out of me. He has no empathy, refuses to do things that are kind and loving, and says such mean things.” “I’m having physical side...

Breaking Free From A Trauma Bond

“There’s something terribly wrong with me. I’ve spent thousands of dollars in therapy healing from the trauma. But I keep going back for more. It’s like this vacuum that sucks me back, and I can’t...

AVOID THESE FIVE THINGS THAT PREVENT PEOPLE FROM HEALING FROM TRAUMA

“I’ve poured my heart and soul into healing from the trauma. But for some reason I still can’t seem to shake loose from this man who has broken my heart again and again. Even though I’ve done the...

Five Things You Must Embrace and Believe to Heal from Trauma

“I thought I had all that trauma either tucked away securely under the seat in front of me, or in the overhead bin. But my wife handed me that article you wrote, and once again, I knew I was drowning...

FIVE THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY OF HEALING FROM TRAUMA

“I woke up in horrible pain, gagging. I didn’t know my jaws were wired shut. My mother was screaming and going crazy, and the nurses took her out. I was alone, and I am sure I was terrified.” “I did...