Developing Emotional Sobriety Requires Recognizing & Untangling Skewed Thinking
“Wait! Did you say my thoughts were ‘screwed’?” my client demanded. With a smile, I clarified … “I did not. I said they were ‘skewed’.” He looked confused as he paused to ponder. “Is there a difference?” I smiled again as I casually responded, “Not much, I guess!” We both laughed. I had been speaking […]
EMOTIONAL SOBRIETY … And Why You Need It Whether You Are An Addict or NOT!
The host of the broadcast asked a great question with curiosity His reaction wasn’t different than most people’s when they hear about emotional sobriety: “Wait a minute! What is this about emotional sobriety? And what is it?” Before I answered the question about what it was, I clarified that many people mistakenly believe that this […]
Your Presence Leaves A Mark: Is it Positive or Negative?
“I couldn’t believe it when my wife said to me: ‘YES! Who you are makes a difference … it ruins many days of my life! But I’m not sure that’s a difference you should be proud of!’ I was just stunned!” my client blurted out in desperation. “First of all, she isn’t one to say […]
Aint’ Nothin’ Like the Real Thing: Authenticity
“I just had my first performance review in my new position, and I was stunned to receive the feedback that I was ‘too polished’.” My client was clearly mystified. “When you make six figures a year in sales, how can you possibly be ‘to polished’?” I nodded to validate his concern. Then I asked, “Is […]
The Number One Goal in Life
My client rushed into my office with urgency: “I read this quote this week, and it’s like everything you’ve been saying to me is summarized here: ‘The number one goal of life is developing mastery in your unique ability and thus living out your unique calling and your purpose at the highest possible level’.” (Dan […]
Let’s Wire You Up With Empowering Beliefs That Will Take You To Extraordinary Places
“I was reading to my grandson from Dr. Seuss’s book: Oh, the Places You’ll Go!” my client shared. “He was giggling, and all the while I was thinking, I’m pretty sure that you co-authored this book!” “You’ll be on your way up!You’ll be seeing great sights!You’ll join the high fliersWho soar to high heights. You […]
The First Step in Rewiring Your Brain WITHOUT Limiting Beliefs
“I’m pretty sure you told me last week when I asked you how you could be sure that the problem I was facing was due to my limiting beliefs. I’m also fairly sure that you told me that the answer (to whether or not I had them) would be found, like the proof in the […]
Are Your Beliefs Limiting or Paralyzing You?
“What’s happened to me? When I was kid, I could just put a towel around my neck, and I truly believed I could fly.” I laughed as he shared the story about jumping out of a tree, but the towel that he had tied around his neck got caught on a branch and almost hung […]
The Power of Defining Moments: Propel Yourself to Your Best Life
“I heard that Kevin Costner once said, ‘When a defining moment comes along, you either define the moment, or the moment defines you’.” “Well, my moment came along, and it defined me.” I waited. “It defined me as a loser! All she was trying to do was share how my addiction to gambling, alcohol, and […]
Working, Dancing, & Loving!
“This weekend was life-changing for me. I’m not sure I would’ve made it until this morning, if not for yesterday in the Power of Purpose.” I live for moments like this. I’ve given my life and will continue to do so, to help as many as I can find the hope they need, to live […]