How We Attach Affects EVERYTHING In Our Lives
“The first time you told me I had a ‘connection disorder’ … I thought you meant my mouth and my brain weren’t connected!” my client said to me as he walked in my office. “And maybe that’s true too!” he commented … before I had a chance to say it! We both enjoyed a good […]
Questions/Answers about Fixing What’s Been Broken
“We have a question we’d love for you to answer …” The couple I’d worked with and shared their story with you asked. “Why are couples so resistant to this process? Why isn’t everyone doing it? And how do you convince them it’s necessary and does miracles?” In jest, I turned to […]
A NEW BEGINNING AFTER FIXING WHAT’S BEEN BROKEN
“I think a ‘new beginning’ is exactly what’s going on in our marriage!” the wife boasted. “I would’ve said early on that I just wanted things to get back to the way they used to be,” the husband commented. “Only because I had no idea that a ‘new beginning’ was even possible after all […]
The Forgiveness Journey after Fixing What’s Been Broken
The wife of my client began the session with: “I never thought that I’d be able to forgive him for what he did. I mean … I believe in forgiveness, and I know it’s important. I just didn’t think it was humanly possible for me.” After doing great work on all the steps I’d […]
Rebuilding Trust after Breaking a Promise or a Heart
“I would’ve never guessed that we could move forward from all I’ve done. But I can literally see her healing and I’m so … so thankful!” my client shared after completing the second set of 3 steps on … “Fixing What You’ve Broken.” “When she shared her perspective on what happened at that moment, […]
Keeping The Fires Burning In Your Newly Designed Marriage Or Relationship
It was their concluding session after working through the emotional and verbal abuse that had plagued their marriage for years. I shared with them, as I’d like to share with you, that if you want to have a vehicle that lasts a long time…you must do regular maintenance on it. It needs to be refilled […]
Coming Together to Tackle & Throw Emotional Abuse OUT of Your Relationship
“I know he still needs to continue addressing his trauma. But I promise you … the man who sleeps in my bed is a man I’ve never known. Even in his best moments!” The wife of the couple I’d been working with was beaming. Her eyes were sparkling, her energy levels were vastly improved, her […]
Using RoundUp on Roots that Lead to Treat Others with Less Kindness & Respect Than You Desire or They Deserve
“For some reason, I feel more nervous about this ‘surgery process’ than I did about my shoulder replacement.” I could see my client was indeed nervous about beginning to address the things we identified as his roots that led to him becoming emotionally and verbally abusive. I will continue to share their story (with their […]
Sharing My Heart With Those Who Have Been Less Loving & Kind Than You Wish You’d Been
“I didn’t intend to be emotionally abusive, and to be honest, I’m not sure that what I’ve done was actually emotional abuse. At least I hope it isn’t …” He was only there because his wife was ready to file for divorce. He only knew because he opened her credit card statement and […]
Hope for Marriage Where the Emotional Abuse Is Denied
Is there any hope for my marriage if my husband (or wife) doesn’t believe they are emotionally abusive? I received texts and direct messages like this all week long. Those of you who know me are aware … I have GREAT faith … that ANYTHING great is possible. However, I also want to be honest […]