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The Challenges of Dancing with Swinging Moods (That Feel Like A Wrecking Ball)

“I know he’s a good man. I know he is. And I vacillate between wanting to be supportive and help him, to feeling totally crazy, to thinking that the only way I can survive is to do what a counselor...

Dancing with Swinging Moods (Or Wrecking Balls)

“I am so tired of being the object of the wrecking ball that swings from the end of his wrecking rig. He’s in the cabin in the cool air conditioning, listening to music, while I am out here in the...

Thoughtful Communication – How to Upgrade Your Relationships

“Our communication went to hell in a handbasket a long time ago. But now somehow hell took a dive and it’s somewhere buried underneath that!” the wife of my new couple began… Her husband jumped...

Healing from the Aftermath of Being BLEEP’ed On For A Long Period of Time

“I don’t want to sound ungrateful the BLEEP work you’ve done with us has literally saved our marriage! Everything has turned around! But somehow, I feel left behind,” she said with crocodile tears...

Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your Bleep, Part III

“Last week was such a high, delivering back all of that carried angerbut I didn’t expect to wake up the next morning feeling empty!?” my client said/ask at check-in. I replied. “I understand totally...

Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your BLEEP, Part II

“I’ve had so much relief from draining my bitterness tank and my resentment tank that I am MORE THAN READY to drain the carried anger tank. I feel different than I’ve felt my whole life, and I deeply...

Resolving the Carried Anger That Fuels Your Bleep (Part I)

“Honest to God.” His pause was filled with palpable jovial-mocking angst as he blurted, “I never knew every cell in my body was oozing carried anger!” His wife laughed and challenged him: “Oozing?!...

Resolving Resentment that Fuels Your BLEEP

“I knew I resented my ex-wife and all she did to me and our family. But I had no idea I was punishing my current wife, and my children (and my brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, neighbors, church...

Resolving Bitterness that Fuels Your BLEEP

“I had no idea that I had all of this ‘stuff’ mentally and spiritually onboard… fueling my BLEEP! But all I can say is life is better for me, our marriage, and our kidsnow that I have unloaded...