Hope for Marriage Where the Emotional Abuse Is Denied
Is there any hope for my marriage if my husband (or wife) doesn’t believe they are emotionally abusive? I received texts and direct messages like this all week long. Those of you who know me are aware … I have GREAT faith … that ANYTHING great is possible. However, I also want to be honest […]
Fixing Patterns of Emotional / Verbal Abuse YES! Healing Is Necessary!
“We’ve been following along with your process about fixing what’s been broken. But what if it’s not an event, but ongoing emotional verbal abuse?” I received this direct message, and as I always do … sent a response. But something in me felt like I needed to be a bit more specific. So, […]
Three Core Traits We Should All Seek to Become that Override Any and All Trauma Programming

“Back in early December, my daughter told me that all she wanted from me for Christmas this year was for me to attend your ‘Designing an Extraordinary Year’ Workshop. I only did it for her, but something started churning in me as I watched the recordings!” my client said. I nodded with interest and curiosity. […]
Let Courage Arise … To “Fix” What You’ve “Broken”!

I know I’ve been a very difficult client, and I’m ready to do whatever it takes!” my client blurted out in his opening comments. To be honest with you, I’m not sure which of us was more surprised to hear those words come out of his mouth! Although I’m not 100% sure what brought him […]
3 More Steps to Fix What You’ve Broken

It was 10 times harder than I thought, but it was worth every bit of effort that I put into it!” my client reported after he did the first 3 steps with his wife. I nodded, empathetically, knowing that it’s indeed hard. Then I asked him: “What about it made it difficult?” He processed for […]