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Attachment Wounds

“I don’t think I have any attachment wounds I just don’t attach!” my client mused. I realized he was thinking as many do that wounds are things you can see. Rarely are attachment wounds anything...

How We Attach Affects EVERYTHING In Our Lives

“The first time you told me I had a ‘connection disorder’ I thought you meant my mouth and my brain weren’t connected!” my client said to me as he walked in my office. “And maybe that’s true too!” he...

Questions/Answers about Fixing What’s Been Broken

“We have a question we’d love for you to answer …”   The couple I’d worked with and shared their story with you asked.   “Why are couples so resistant to this...

A NEW BEGINNING AFTER FIXING WHAT’S BEEN BROKEN

“I think a ‘new beginning’ is exactly what’s going on in our marriage!” the wife boasted.   “I would’ve said early on that I just wanted things to get back to the way they used to be,” the...

The Forgiveness Journey after Fixing What’s Been Broken

The wife of my client began the session with: “I never thought that I’d be able to forgive him for what he did. I mean I believe in forgiveness, and I know it’s important. I just didn’t think it was...

Rebuilding Trust after Breaking a Promise or a Heart

“I would’ve never guessed that we could move forward from all I’ve done. But I can literally see her healing and I’m so … so thankful!” my client shared after completing the second set of 3...

Keeping The Fires Burning In Your Newly Designed Marriage Or Relationship

It was their concluding session after working through the emotional and verbal abuse that had plagued their marriage for years. I shared with them, as I’d like to share with you, that if you want to...

Coming Together to Tackle & Throw Emotional Abuse OUT of Your Relationship

“I know he still needs to continue addressing his trauma. But I promise you the man who sleeps in my bed is a man I’ve never known. Even in his best moments!” The wife of the couple I’d been working...

Using RoundUp on Roots that Lead to Treat Others with Less Kindness & Respect Than You Desire or They Deserve

“For some reason, I feel more nervous about this ‘surgery process’ than I did about my shoulder replacement.” I could see my client was indeed nervous about beginning to address the things we...