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Regret That Makes Repairs After VMH Aggression

You’ve sown now you reap. I wish I had better news: it’s the one truth that we all share. It’s time to sow again: ask a farmer sometimes our best doesn’t produce. But, with a newness of heart and...

Your VMH Makes You Appear Selfish … But I Know That’s Not Who You Are!

“Selfish! That’s why I lost her! I was selfish! So focused on what I had to spew out when my VMH was activated that I had not one moment of understanding I was destroying her!” my client that I...

Your Aggressions Aren’t Your Fault … But Now It’s Your Responsibility

“I guess she just wants someone perfect who’ll tolerate her emotions, so I’m out!” my client seethed. Last week, I shared three scenarios of people who were struggling with VMH issues, and that was...

When our Brain Takes Over: Learning to Make Repairs After “Less Than Ideal” Moments

“I’ve destroyed my relationship,” my client said as he wept.   “I guess she just wants someone perfect who will tolerate her emotions, so I’m out!” another client seethed.   “I don’t know...

The Beautiful Combination of Faith, Miracles, & Trauma Healing

“I’m truly not trying to be controversial… but I’m just very curious. Does the existence of trauma coaching defy faith?”   I knew my client was not being controversial though I...

Transforming Your Life Like Michelangelo

“Is Coaching an art or a science?” A client considering my Coach Training & Certification Course asked me this, this week. Immediately, I thought of the title of Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s...

Becoming An Agent of Transformation

“What does a Coach actually do? I mean what do you train them to do?” A GREAT question! I took a call from someone I don’t know to field some questions this week. I was so impressed with his questions...

Your Superpower for Growth, Leadership, And Fulfillment

“Why on earth didn’t you tell me that what I needed to do was to get over myself and come through the Coaching program?” Recently I had a conversation with a man who graduated from my Coaching program...

I Can Eat A Hot Fudge Sundae Daily and Still Shed Pounds, Melt Body Fat, and Chase Off the Energy Thief?

My client asked with this curiosity of a little girl: “I’m ready to hear about what I heard you said in a Webinar did you really say that we can eat Blue Bell Ice Cream every day on your plan? And...