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Coming Together to Tackle & Throw Emotional Abuse OUT of Your Relationship

“I know he still needs to continue addressing his trauma. But I promise you the man who sleeps in my bed is a man I’ve never known. Even in his best moments!” The wife of the couple I’d been working...

Using RoundUp on Roots that Lead to Treat Others with Less Kindness & Respect Than You Desire or They Deserve

“For some reason, I feel more nervous about this ‘surgery process’ than I did about my shoulder replacement.” I could see my client was indeed nervous about beginning to address the things we...

Sharing My Heart With Those Who Have Been Less Loving & Kind Than You Wish You’d Been

“I didn’t intend to be emotionally abusive, and to be honest, I’m not sure that what I’ve done was actually emotional abuse. At least I hope it isn’t ”   He was only there because his wife was...

Hope for Marriage Where the Emotional Abuse Is Denied

Is there any hope for my marriage if my husband (or wife) doesn’t believe they are emotionally abusive? I received texts and direct messages like this all week long. Those of you who know me are...

Fixing Patterns of Emotional / Verbal Abuse YES! Healing Is Necessary!

“We’ve been following along with your process about fixing what’s been broken. But what if it’s not an event, but ongoing emotional verbal abuse?”   I received this direct message, and as I...

Three Core Traits We Should All Seek to Become that Override Any and All Trauma Programming

“Back in early December, my daughter told me that all she wanted from me for Christmas this year was for me to attend your ‘Designing an Extraordinary Year’ Workshop. I only did it for her, but...

Let Courage Arise … To “Fix” What You’ve “Broken”!

I know I’ve been a very difficult client, and I’m ready to do whatever it takes!” my client blurted out in his opening comments. To be honest with you, I’m not sure which of us was more surprised to...

3 More Steps to Fix What You’ve Broken

It was 10 times harder than I thought, but it was worth every bit of effort that I put into it!” my client reported after he did the first 3 steps with his wife. I nodded, empathetically, knowing that...

3 More Steps to Fix What You’ve Broken

“It was 10 times harder than I thought, but it was worth every bit of effort that I put into it!” my client reported after he did the first 3 steps with his wife. I nodded, empathetically, knowing...